Survey of 200 women from all over Japan Survey of 200 women nationwide on impressions of men in their 30s who live at home 56.5% of women answered "unattractive

The blog providing information on marriage activity and romance, "TAISPE! conducted a survey of 200 women nationwide on their impressions of men in their 30s living at home in order to clarify women's true feelings toward men in their 30s living at home.

In recent years, due to economic reasons and the convenience of living with parents, many men in their 30s still live at home with their parents. However, living at home may be a disadvantage when it comes to marriage activity and dating. In this survey, we gather the true opinions of women to highlight the current situation of men in their 30s who live at home in their marriages, as well as their countermeasures.

A survey of 200 women's attitudes toward men in their 30s who live at home

Details of the "Attitude Survey on Men in Their 30s Living at Home

Responses were obtained from a wide range of age groups, primarily women in their 20s to late 30s.

Age of survey targets (women)

Early 20s - 9 respondents - 4.5

Late 20s - 24 respondents - 12.0

Early 30s - 37 respondents - 13.5

Late 30s - 44 - 22.0

Early 40s - 27 - 13.5

Late 40s - 25 - 12.5

50s and older - 34 respondents - 17.0%.

This survey was conducted on women in a wide range of ages, from early 20s to over 50s. Respondents in their late 20s to late 30s were particularly numerous, accounting for 47.5% of the total. We were also able to gather opinions from a wide range of age groups, with women in their early 40s to over 50s accounting for 45.0%.

56.5% of women answered that they are "not attracted" to men in their 30s who live at home.

Attractiveness of Men in Their 30s Living at Home

Q. How attractive are men in their 30s who live at home as marriage partners?

Not at all attractive: 22 (11.0%)

Not very attractive-91-45.5

Not at all attractive - 22 respondents - 11.0% ・Not very attractive - 91 respondents - 45.5% ・Not at all attractive - 77 respondents - 38.5

Slightly attractive -7 respondents -3.5

Very attractive: 3 - 1.5

When asked about their level of attraction to men in their 30s who live at home as marriage partners, 11.0% answered "not at all attractive" and 45.5% answered "not very attractive," for a total of 56.5% of women who answered "not attractive at all" or "not very attractive. On the other hand, 38.5% of women answered "undecided," and a total of 5.0% answered "somewhat attractive" or "very attractive.

Lack of housework skills" is the biggest concern for men in their 30s living at home

Image of Men in Their 30s Living at Home

Q. Please select all the images you have of men in their 30s who live at home. (Multiple choices are acceptable.) Q. What is your image of men in their 30s who live at home?

Lack of ability to do housework-146 votes

Not independent -106 votes

Mentally dependent on parents -104 votes

Does not seem to use money in a sensible way - 48 votes

Low income -41 votes

No bad impression - 25 votes

In a multiple-response survey on the image of men in their 30s who live at home, the most common response, 146 votes, was that they "don't seem to be able to do housework. This was followed by "doesn't seem independent" with 106 votes and "seems mentally dependent on parents" with 104 votes. On the other hand, 25 women responded, "I don't have a bad impression of them.

●The concern when considering marriage is "lack of housework and living skills.

Concerns about marrying a man in his 30s who lives at home

Q. If you were to marry a man in his 30s who lives at home, please select all the points that would make you uneasy. (Multiple answers are acceptable.) Q. What concerns do you have about marrying a man in his 30s who lives at home?

I don't think he will be good at housework and living at home - 153 votes

Parents might take control of his life (e.g., motherhood) -106 votes

Do not have a good sense of money - 86 votes

Will I still rely on my parents after marriage -81 votes

I don't feel insecure -13 votes

We also asked respondents about their concerns about marrying a man in his 30s who lives at home. The most common response, with 153 votes, was "Lack of housework and living skills," followed by 106 votes for "Parents might take control of life (e.g., motherhood)," and 86 votes for "Lack of a sense of finances.

●Evaluation tends to change depending on the reason for living at home and the level of independence.

An analysis of the free response responses revealed that the reason for living at home in one's 30s is important. While many women were understanding if there was a parental caregiving or financial reason, the reason "because it's easy" tended to be rated lower.

The survey also revealed that even if they live at home, their impressions may change if they can show that they are proactive about housework, have good money management skills, are mentally independent, and have other life skills.

Key Points for Success in Marriage Activities for Men in Their 30s Who Live at Home

The results of this survey revealed that the following points are important for men in their 30s who live at home to be successful in their marriage activities. 1.

(1) Improve their housekeeping skills and demonstrate their ability to make a living.

2. develop money management skills and have a habit of saving money

3. aim for mental independence and reduce dependence on parents

4. have a clear reason for living at home and show a vision for the future

Although living at home in your 30s may put you at a disadvantage in your marriage activities, you can improve your situation by being aware of the above points. Men who want to get married will need to continue to make ongoing efforts and reduce the number of factors that reduce their points.

■Survey Outline

Survey period: February 25, 2025 - March 11, 2025

Survey method: Internet survey via the crowdsourcing service "Lancers

Number of people surveyed: 200

Survey target : Women in their 20s to 50s or older

Survey source : Theispe!

Blog information

Blog name: TEISPE!

Operator ： Tetsu Taniguchi

Content ： Provides information on marriage activity and love, supports marriage activity of low-spec men

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